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  • Writer's pictureDevi Sparkles

The First Meeting with Me

Are you fantasizing about a rendezvous with your goddess? In this blog, I'll guide you on how to make it happen. Are you prepared to transform your desires into actual experiences? The process of scheduling any initial encounter with me is the same, whether it's for a BDSM session in my studio, a coffee date in the city, or a brief golden shower during your workday.

1. Email

Everything starts with the first contact. At this stage, there's no need to know everything or be completely sure if you want and dare to meet me. If you're more experienced or have thought about the first session in more detail, feel free to share with me what kind of experiences you hope for during the session or what you've fantasised about. It's also a good idea to mention when it would be best to meet and the duration you're hoping for. Please also specify in which city studio you would like to meet. You can check my schedule on my calendar.

2. Form Completion

In response to your message, I'll let you know if I'm available at your desired time and inform you if there's anything in your wishes that may not be possible with me. Additionally, you'll receive my form to fill out. The form contains various activities, and it will help me get to know you, your desires, and your boundaries. Once you've filled out the form, you'll also receive a preliminary price estimate. It's a good idea to familiarize yourself with my pricing in advance.

3. Phone Call and Appointment

Since no form can fully encompass everyone's desires and fantasies, I want to have a conversation with you before our first meeting. During the call, we'll go through practical matters, and you can ask me any questions that are on your mind. In the call, I'll confirm the final meeting time and price based on your wishes. If at this point you find that meeting me seems too nerve-wracking, you can inform me, and it's absolutely fine to take more time to gather your courage.

4. Meeting

Arrive at my studio at the agreed time. Don't be late, and don't be too early. You can be a few minutes early at most. Before the meeting begins, you'll make the session payment and I'll ask you to wash your hands. You can also share any last-minute thoughts and feelings at this point, after which the session will commence. If you're an experienced player, we can also arrange over the phone for the session to begin right at the door.

After the meeting, you can take a quick shower. My studio always has a towel and washing necessities available. I'll also offer you a glass of water, and we can briefly discuss and go over any thoughts and feelings that arose during the session.

5. After the Meeting

I'd love to hear your thoughts about the meeting via email afterward. This way, I can get to know you and understand you better.

Photo: Saskia Petäjä


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